Breaking Free: Letting Go of Soul Ties and Finding Your Light Again
There’s something about a soul tie that feels unshakable—like an invisible thread connecting you to someone long after the relationship has ended. It’s deep, magnetic, and often confusing, leaving you wondering why you can’t seem to move on. But here’s the truth: letting go of a soul tie isn’t about forgetting the connection; it’s about reclaiming your energy and opening yourself up to the love and peace you deserve.
Soul ties can form through emotional closeness, shared experiences, or physical intimacy. Some are beautiful and nurturing, while others feel like they hold you back, keeping you stuck in a loop of longing and pain. If you’re ready to break free, know that it’s a process, and it starts with the courage to choose yourself.
Releasing a soul tie begins with intention. You don’t have to have everything figured out—just the willingness to let go of what’s no longer serving you. Take a moment to visualize the connection between you and the other person. Imagine an energetic cord tying you together. Now, with love and light, picture yourself cutting that cord. It’s not an act of anger but of self-love, a way of saying, “I release you so I can heal.”
Letting go also means making space. It can be hard to move forward when your surroundings are filled with reminders of the past. Take the time to clear your space, whether it’s removing objects tied to that person or creating a ritual to cleanse your energy. Light a candle, say a prayer, or burn sage—whatever feels right for you.
Forgiveness is another key to healing. This isn’t about excusing anyone’s behavior but about freeing yourself from the weight of resentment. Writing down your feelings in a letter you never send can be incredibly powerful. Once it’s written, you can tear it up or burn it, watching the pain and anger dissipate as the words disappear.
I know that breaking a soul tie isn’t just about the act of letting go—it’s about navigating the emotions that come afterward. It’s normal to feel sadness, confusion, or even fear of the unknown. But remember, those feelings don’t define you. They’re part of the process, and they’ll pass.
Be gentle with yourself. This is a time for self-compassion. Speak to yourself with the kindness you’d offer a dear friend. You’ve made the brave decision to prioritize your own happiness, and that’s something to be proud of.
Focusing on the present can help ease the weight of the past. Ground yourself through meditation, journaling, or simply spending time in nature. Even a deep breath can remind you that you’re here, now, and that’s enough.
As you move forward, allow yourself to dream again. Think about what lights you up, what excites you, and let that guide you. Whether it’s a creative project, a new routine, or a simple act of self-care, these small steps will help you rebuild and rediscover your strength.
Breaking a soul tie is an act of love—love for yourself, your journey, and your future. It’s a way of honoring the connection for what it taught you while choosing to release it so you can grow. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.
If you’re feeling stuck or unsure of how to move forward, know that you don’t have to do it alone. I’m here to support you every step of the way. Together, we can create a path toward healing and clarity, one step at a time.
With love and light,
Lillian Wright🌟